Spilling the beans

Two years ago Craig and I were going to move to Northern Ireland and settle down there.  I was telling my mother and she got this idea in her head that I was going to be arrested going through immigrations.  I am not sure why she thought that.  Strange she mentioned this because during things started happening to Craig with his weak leg, falling and then his hands curled under his wrists, my mother wanted me to leave him because she got this other idea in her head that he was going to die.  I didn't want to upset her more so I just left it like that.  Craig wanted to check out Vermont to live so since I had the money to move there I gave him that wish to move here.  But still I am not happy.

Craig and I have been really thinking about moving again, our final decision was to move to Northern Ireland and didn't care what my family thought about it.  I figured I would tell my mother via skype text since she is going to find out sooner or later.  She thought I was joking and I know she is shocked on that matter as well.

Thanksgiving passed and I wasn't surprised that we didn't hear from any of the family to wish us a Happy Thanksgiving.  I seriously think my mother is a little pissed off but I really don't care about what she thinks.  She lived her life she should let me live my life.  It bothers me when she thinks that I will be sponging off the family and again she thinks that when Craig dies the family would have to be responsible for burying him.  I don't know why she is having these thoughts in her head thinking Craig is expecting something from the family.

A couple of days ago, I gotten a call from my sister Karen and she wanted to know what was going on,  I figured my mother spreaded the word around that we were leaving the United States permanently.  My sister wanted to know what was going on and started asking questions like what will we will be doing with the furniture and car, where we are going to go, do we have enough money to get over there, what about the cats, and medical stuff.  I told her that everything is being planned out.  We both renewed our US Passports...actually I just got my US passport yesterday so that is out of the way.

To this day, my mother hasn't skyped so I am assuming that she is still annoyed and pissed off.  But what she has to realize that I have a life and have to live my life just as well she lived hers.